Friday, October 24, 2008

My Girl Got A Girlfriend


Greetings Fam,

Sorry, but I have to jump right into this one...It's absolutely hilarious to me how anyone living in America today can believe that they're character is not affected by media of any medium. We live in a capitalistic society that thrives on peoples insecurities, curiosity and most of all...arrogance. The era of the "pseudo baller" is in full effect as mindless souls wait for the next video, web cast or CD to emerge and give them their next move. With that said, I'd like to discuss an ever growing epidemic, we'll call it, "my girl got a girl friend". Now I know female sexuality has been known to cause wars and the like, let's be honest, for the most part it's undeniable. However, I happen to believe it is vastly misunderstood by the opposite sex, it shows in their multiple attempts to exploit it. We're very liberal now, so a woman being sexually attracted to another woman is not that big of a deal at this point. You see it all day on TV and hear about all night on the radio. It's the allure of the menage a troi that causes some men to convince themselves they need it in their lives. At the moment the the idea is conceived, it's perceived from a singular perspective, sexual gratification for self. Most selfish acts come with some sort of consequence, this one is no different. I'll give you an example, a man, we'll call him John, suggests to his wife Jane they invite another woman into their bed. Jane is not initially convinced, but after a few years of relentless persuading she decides to give her husband what he wants. Jane sets out to find the right woman and stumbles upon Mary, a coworker. Mary entertains the couples request, but after being in the moment for a short time, she changes her mind, gets up and leaves the couple high and dry. Of course John is pissed, cause his fantasy is still merely a fantasy. However, Jane who was only moderately interested in the beginning, has a heightened curiosity involving other women now. So, she decides to venture out to find her own girl on girl experience, and runs into Lisa. Lisa unlike Mary, is comfortable with her sexuality and is ready to give Jane exactly what she's been waiting for. After Jane and Lisa become acquainted, Lisa is introduced to John in a roundabout way. John is immediately attracted to Lisa, has an idea that she and his wife are a bit more than just friends, and suggests that Jane ask Lisa to join them in bed this time. Jane is reluctant, so John decides to take matter into his own hands and asks Lisa himself. Surprisingly, Lisa obliges, but things don't necessarily go as planned. Lisa is not as attracted to John as he is her and she is Jane, hence Jane and Lisa have a wonderful time pleasing one another, and John is left as a sideline spectator. After all is said and done, John is furious, and tells Jane that he never wants to do that again. But where does that leave Jane and her new found sexual identity? Now, there are multiple things wrong with this scenario. First, Johns initial thought was not thoroughly contemplated. Second, he employed Jane to find the other woman, giving her a leg up on him. Third, his fantasy in no way coincided with his reality and he was crushed. He was ill prepared to witness his wife moaning for another woman louder than she had for him in years. Can we say...deflated ego?! Sorry fellas, but the majority of you actually have the nerve to underestimate women in all they do. You feel that your manly physique gives you an automatically elevated status but you're devestated to find that there are women out here just as serious as you are. The moment you relaize it, your woman is already being wooed by another woman, and you go from extraordinary to regular. All I can say is, be mindful and very careful what you aske for, you just might get it, and it may not be what you intended to have at all. It's like they say, what's good for the goose isn't always good for the gander. Just do you!

As Always,

Ms. Shu Shu

2 comments:

Norma Wilson said...

This is HOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Numi said...

This is a point many of them just don't seem to understand... Female sexuality is a powerful for the two to connect...whew lol